I went through a big professional rupture about ten years ago. At the time, I felt like I was standing in a huge gap between my life as it was and how I longed for it to be.


Having earned two Harvard master’s degrees, I imagined myself shooting like a firework into the sky, raining down amazing ideas and enjoying a life full of delightful colleagues and meaningful contributions. Instead, my work flame had flickered brightly and died.

When I look back at a photo from this season of my life, I barely recognize myself. The strain of three children under five and a demanding nonprofit leadership job left me depleted.

Stress, like a layer of dust, had seriously diminished my sparkle.

Courtney PinkertonThis whole experience made me wonder who I was and what value I offered. My only strategy at the time was to come to a screeching halt. This was, honestly, pretty brutal. I felt a kind of psychic whiplash as all the forward momentum I had cultivated as a young woman deposited me in a very unsatisfying present.

While I had beautiful spiritual teachers who were lifelines through this process – one who introduced me to the Enneagram, an ancient personality map, and another who was an experienced life coach full of real world wisdom– they did not seem to speak the same language. One was gifted at the deep dive, the other the day-to-day steps forward.

I longed to know how to integrate their suggestions – how to take the shimmering spiritual truths and actually live them. I wanted to feel freer and more present. I absolutely wanted to stop feeling like I was missing my children’s lives because of the pace of my work and internal pressures to contribute. I was tired of consuming myself on the inside to accomplish on the outside.

And though I didn’t know it at the time, what I most wanted was for someone to hand me a magic elixir – a formula that would free me to both discover and release my unique gifts to the world and to flourish in my personal life.

My book and coaching programs are rooted in a desire to pay it forward and to help others access the ‘formula’ I longed for during this time of transition. The Flourish Formula shows you how to slow down and create more space in which to live your life. Slowing down itself isn’t the goal. I suppose it’s possible to sprint through life and be truly happy. But in my experience, if we only have one speed – pressing us ever onward or even accelerating – it becomes impossible to notice the subtle course corrections we need to make along the way. Also this ‘formula’ isn’t the same for each person. It is a gentle scaffolding, a structure, guidance for your growth.

But in my years of coaching high functioning folks I have learned that slowing down, as uncomfortable as it can feel, is a potent first step. Full speed ahead sets us up for some unpleasant outcomes: a body breakdown – because all that stress wreaks havoc on your tissues – and/or a serious episode of work-related depression: when you arrive breathless at the top of your particular mountain only to wonder, “What the hell comes next?”

I want to help you avoid this type of physical and psychological pain, but there’s a deeper reason I want to share the Flourish Formula with you. I don’t believe that you would have found your way to this website if you did not have something precious and potent to share with your community and our world. Something unique and sorely needed. And now is a time for well-resourced revolutionaries.

We need women (and I also sometimes work with a handful of amazing men) who are able to step – in all our wholeness – into leadership roles of every type, from our families on up. And when we are stuck in patterns of sprinting until we collapse, we never actually build the capacity inside ourselves to unlock and share those unique gifts.

Which Brings Me to You

If you’ve read this far, thank you. I hope this is just the beginning of our relationship.

I share lots of free content regularly to my community. I’m committed to bringing you the very best of what I’m learning as well as potent tools and techniques for living your most spacious life.  I also try to walk my talk. While I coach over the internet and phone (as well as hosting virtual retreats), I aim to enjoy as much unplugged time as possible for vacation with my fam and to play on my tiny farm.

A few years ago my family and I relocated to Nicaragua for a year of global adventuring. (My husband and I originally met in Nicaragua as Peace Corps volunteers.) We wanted to gift our children an opportunity to immerse themselves in Spanish and to gain a global perspective. Plus we wanted to simplify our life and home so that we could lighten our eco footprint and spend our time in ways that are more meaningful for us. In addition to volunteering to help children in a poor barrio of Granada learn to read, my husband worked with me to edit and publish my first book, which was an exciting collaboration for our family.

During our time out of the country I found that my children and Nicaraguan neighbors were powerful guides in the art of slowing down and savoring more. In the summer of 2018 we relocated to Asheville, NC — drawn here by the pleasures of farmers markets, hikes, and my husbands family. I love sharing pics of our current adventures on Instagram and hope you will connect with me there www.instagram.com/courtneypinkerton in addition to signing up for my email newsletter below.

When you sign up you will receive a free excerpt of my book The Flourish Formula, which reveals the eight steps to the Flourish process. It will walk you through the fundamentals of how you can slow down and actually accomplish more, all while enjoying your whole life – professional and personal – to the fullest.

Thank you so much for taking the time to visit. I’m honored that you are here and can’t wait to continue the conversation.

If you would like to learn more about my professional credentials and official bio, read on below.

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Professional Bio

Courtney Pinkerton is a certified life coach and the author of the Amazon bestseller, The Flourish Formula: An Overachiever’s Guide to Slowing Down & Accomplishing More.

Courtney is an inner life coach and Enneagram mentor. She helps conscious women (and a few amazing men!) to pursue their most salient creative, professional and quality-of-life dreams and to discover more pleasure in their everyday.

She has dual master’s degrees from Harvard Divinity School and Harvard Kennedy School, is a certified Wayfinder life coach and has been studying the Enneagram with master teachers for over a decade. After selling their house and all their belongings and spending a year in Nicaragua tutored by their neighbors in the art of slowing down and living more, Courtney and her husband and their three children now make their home on a permaculture tiny farm near Asheville, North Carolina.

Website: www.courtneypinkerton.com

Email: cp@courtneypinkerton.com

Facebook: CourtneyPinkertonCoach

Instagram: courtneypinkerton


Courtney’s ten plus years as a mentor, advocate and coach equip her to teach and write with authority on a range of mindbody and mindset strategies for flourishing, including:

Busyness & Overwhelm

  • How to Break Free from the “Busyness Fog” and Create a More Spacious Schedule (and Life)
  • How to Slow Down & Accomplish More
  • Subversive Self-Care: How to Create an Oasis of Calm in a Busy Day
  • Time Management & The Myth of Balance
  • Nine Secret Motivations That Keep Us Sprinting Through Life (Using The Enneagram)
  • How to Prevent Body Breakdowns Related to Stress
  • Work Envy & How to Break Free From the Habit of “Comparing & Despairing”
  • The Secret to Slowing Down in a Way That Sticks

Spirit & Fulfillment

  • How to Find a Meditation Practice That Fits You
  • Three Stumbling Blocks to Starting a Meditation Practice & How to Move Through Them
  • Why Self-Compassion is the Foundation for Lasting Change
  • How to Dial Down the Voice of the Inner Critic
  • How to Opt Out of The Gold Star Economy Yet Still Accomplish & Enjoy MORE

Conscious Parenting

  • Parenting with the Enneagram: Nine Human Energies & How They Live in Your Family
  • Creating Your Family Culture including Home Celebrations: Oases of Respite and Renewal in Busy Lives.  Many of our agricultural festivals and religious holidays have become overly commercialized and devoid of much meaning. With conscious intention we can ensoul them and make our own unique celebrations which give us courage and hope for the future.
  • Finding Freedom from Old Parenting Habits 
  • How to Support your Child in Developing into Who They Authentically Are — Not Who They Think You Want Them to Be


  • Masters of Divinity from Harvard Divinity School and Masters of Public Policy (with a focus on leadership and social entrepreneurship) from the Harvard Kennedy School.
  • Author of The Flourish Formula: An Overachiever’s Guide to Slowing Down and Accomplishing More
  • Certified Life Coach in the Wayfinder coaching program, created by Dr. Martha Beck
  • Student of the Enneagram for over a decade, Courtney has studied widely with various Master teachers including from the Enneagram in the Narrative Tradition Community, and has a special interest in how our personality type is expressed somatically.

Courtney is available for podcast, phone or video interviews and teaching engagements in online retreats or summits. Please reach out to support@courtneypinkerton.com for more.

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